In this video by Jubilee, people have been invited to read aloud anonymous statements shared by people who experience loneliness. In the video, they also talk about what loneliness is, and different experiences of loneliness.
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I make people laugh, but I’m not always sure what to do because I’m always left out; since my father died, I’ve been crying alone at night, but during the day I always pretend to be fine, so I make people laugh and bully people for fun; I’m hoping that if I keep pretending, I’ll forget I’m pretending.
I have grown in a house with mirrors thinking i looked pretty but when my friends took photos I found out that i wasn’t as pretty as i hoped the thing the shocked me is that no one told me that I actually looked ugly in pictures, my friends always say that they always invert the picture to make me look good, ever since I have been covering my face with my mask to avoid the eyes of people.
Well since no one told you…it means you’re not uglyy… there’s no such things that is considered pretty or ugly…just Beauty standard are so psychoticly high…and just dont care
I am married but just fall In love with another married woman ..I am keep thinking about her , I always grab opportunity to talk to her and usually text her ..i just care her..this is not about the sex or betraying my wife ..this is a deep feeling comes from my heart for her
I have a big crush on my cousin… sadly we share the same surname and here we don’t approve relations of the same family and stuffs
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I was SA when I was younger by my mother’s boyfriend. I’m 21 now, and I am confused about my sexuality. I’m attracted to men but due to my past, I find it hard to have an emotional connection with them. At the same time, I feel like I am attracted to females but I’m not certain whether I’m using that as an excuse because for my past trauma. So instead of dealing with all these emotions, I’d rather be alone then use a person because I am sexually confused.
I used to bully a girl at school for being stinky and weird, I was about 11-12 so I didn’t know that she had a condition, I can never forgive myself and she deserves better.
I used to like a boy,and then he came to me saying I like yohr friend. At first,I was sad but during the camp,they didnt date. After the camp ended,after 7 days,my friend confessed her feelings to him even tho she knew I like him.(not a secret but a terrible feeling)
I once went through this with my bsf it deeply hit something in me i felt so alone and wanted to talk to someone but that someone was my bsf but she dated the guy i longed for, me and her talked it out but it’s not always the same as it used to be..her and the guy are no longer with each other but it still runs in my mind, it does get better about 3 months later i have a boyfriend who treats me well and im thriving. i hope things have gotten better for you, you are never alone.
i’ve always been through a lot but i’ve always covered it up because i don’t like when people worry, and sometimes i wanna let it out but i’m scared i’ll get judged. when i was 7 and 13 i got sexually assaulted i barely told people but now i regret it bc every now and then people ask if i’m okay.
hey you, you’ll get through this okay. I think this might not sound like much, but you’tr beautiful. I hope this makes your day. And im sorry you got sexually assaulted i too have expierence something rather similar to your situation; you’re not alone.
I was rapped by my brother and neighbor friends older brother when I was younger I never told anyone because as a child I didn’t know right from wrong the older I got the more I understood everything. I never told my family or friends because they would think I was lying and making things up. On top that I was sometimes still mentally/ some times physical abused by my sibling and father. I feel sufficed and alone, because no matter what I say or do to stand up for my self it back fires and get worst. I’ve tried to block and cut ties and that didn’t work. I finally decided at 26 to talk to my family but not much. I have a wonderful husband and his family loves me. My mother Inlaw and I are very close and she’s the only other person I ever told anything that bad had happen to me. She gets it and understand because she went through the same thing I did as a young child.
Ive reached to that point where i can’t let my self out ,my parents, my gf, my frnds nobody bec i dont want to bother them and my heart doesn’t let me talk about my depression.. im failing at everything im trying to do. My dad works hard for my family my mom loves me but the thing is i cant give them anything in return and i dont want to bother anyone bec they have thier own problems in their life and i dont want to be the weight on their back ..
Ive reached to the point where i have created my alter ego just so i can talk to myself. I have a notebook where i hav conversation with the other me.
I think of taking my life sometimes but also i dont because i dont want to hurt my loved ones. I put on a fake smile when im with my family frnds and gf. I dont want them to know that im not doing well with my life. I just want them to be happy and i dont want anything. Im ok as long as they are happy makes me feel good u k. 😄
Please ignore my grammar mistakes since its not my main lingo
I was molested in 5th grade by one of my classmates who always a white male and I told my teacher white female what he did she said it’s okay it was a simple mistake he did and I didn’t tell my mom till the end of 6th grade and this happened during COVID, last year 2021 I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression and 2022 my percents separated and are planing a divorce wich doesn’t help and I get these panic attacks that make it hard to breath wich almost makes sense because I was diagnosed with asthma 4 years ago but before bronchitis second pneumonia lastly asthma and I get this guy feel that I need to throw up and I get vision that my mom is gonna die and that time is passing by way to fast and next year is my quince (15th birthday) and it makes me wanna kms so I could stay young and stuck in time. In 2021 I almost committed scuicide because I couldn’t stand my dad and because I didn’t want to live anymore I was eleven 2022 when I was 12 I wanted to hang my self just like my cousin but I failed because I couldn’t stop thinking what my sister would feel if she found me she was 3 now she’s 5.
My girlfriend and I broke up. She said she can’t handle it anymore. She wanted peace. Two weeks before we broke up, we promised to each other that whatever happens, we’ll stay.
I treated her right, hoping that I’ll get the same treatment. I didn’t.
Few days after we broke up, she’s dating someone new.
I saw the signs that she fell out of love. I swear. I ignored it.
I’m happy for her, but it still hurts. I wish her and her new gf the best.
I’m still trying to move on. I still love her though.
I wrote my suicide note one week before September 4. September 4 is a very special day for me. I wrote my last week of life in my notebook. I wrote what song I was listening to at that time. I wrote in that notebook every tiny detail that happened. I also wrote “If I ever stop writing here, it means I found a will to live.”
I don’t know how much blood had painted my wrist. I always hurt myself. I tried overdosing myself. But I’m also scared, idk why.
I’m still fighting, until now.