{"id":28437,"date":"2021-06-20T20:28:51","date_gmt":"2021-06-20T20:28:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/we.care\/?p=28437"},"modified":"2021-06-20T20:28:51","modified_gmt":"2021-06-20T20:28:51","slug":"the-central-paradox-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/we.care\/en\/the-central-paradox-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"The Central Paradox of Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-sheets-value=\"{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;\u201cLove rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness. One does not exist without the other\u201d. In this review of Esther Perel\u2019s book \u2018Mating in Captivity\u2019, you can read some of the key points of the book, and hear some of Perels thoughts on love, relationships and sexuality.\\n\\nAt We.Care we offer help to overcome a variety of mental challenges. By signing up you will gain access to a variety of informational content on how to improve your life and relationships. Furthermore you will be able to talk to our psychologists, who will be able to offer specialised help tailored to your personal situation and challenges.\\n&quot;}\" data-sheets-userformat=\"{&quot;2&quot;:6659,&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:0},&quot;4&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:16370588},&quot;12&quot;:0,&quot;14&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:0},&quot;15&quot;:&quot;Arial&quot;}\">\u201cLove rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness. One does not exist without the other\u201d. In this review of Esther Perel\u2019s book \u2018Mating in Captivity\u2019, you can read some of the key points of the book, and hear some of Perels thoughts on love, relationships and sexuality.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-sheets-value=\"{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;\u201cLove rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness. One does not exist without the other\u201d. In this review of Esther Perel\u2019s book \u2018Mating in Captivity\u2019, you can read some of the key points of the book, and hear some of Perels thoughts on love, relationships and sexuality.\\n\\nAt We.Care we offer help to overcome a variety of mental challenges. By signing up you will gain access to a variety of informational content on how to improve your life and relationships. Furthermore you will be able to talk to our psychologists, who will be able to offer specialised help tailored to your personal situation and challenges.\\n&quot;}\" data-sheets-userformat=\"{&quot;2&quot;:6659,&quot;3&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:0},&quot;4&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:16370588},&quot;12&quot;:0,&quot;14&quot;:{&quot;1&quot;:2,&quot;2&quot;:0},&quot;15&quot;:&quot;Arial&quot;}\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.brainpickings.org\/2016\/10\/13\/mating-in-captivity-esther-perel\/\">Read the article here<\/a><\/p>\n<p>At We.Care we offer help to overcome a variety of mental challenges. By signing up you will gain access to a variety of informational content on how to improve your life and relationships. 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